Hire a reputable accountant and independant security advisor first.
If you're employed, keep your job.
Don't spend--- invest. By today's standards, even a million dollars isn't worth much.
The very basics: living. Purchase a home, moderately priced which entails little maintenance, ie, no major expenditures like liens, co-op regulations, low property taxes, etc. Do the research. Go through a local bank vs a mega bank, you'll get better offers and quicker assistance. You can always upgrade later.
Invest a residual portion in other properties, which may get tricky. This is for liquidable assets, immediate tangible income. Money-in-hand, rental properties. Besides homes or apartment units, think restaurant or fast-food locations, something that brings in money on a regular basis which increases cash flow with low outlay. You may want to seek a partner investor here as most proven franchises are diversified and total investment costs are astronomical.
Start a portfolio. Invest in retirement with secured earnings. This is monies you won't touch in years that will gain after a number of years. Make sure, if anything should happen, that there's a beneficiary, otherwise the government will confiscate.
After all this, if you have monies left to invest, purchase a small piece of art by a famed artist, if you can. Pay the cost, maintenance, and insurance. Going to galleries or showings opens you up to a different economical bracket that puts you directly in touch with others that have expendable capital; the big spenders.
Your investment will enable you to enrich your life to access theirs. Recommendations are galleries in the major cities or suburbs, New York, San Francisco, Los Angeles, Santa Fe, etc. More research. With confidence, learn their mannerisms, hobbies (golf's a must), dress, catch phrases, etc. It's networking, plain and simple.
Of course, pay your debts first. The amount left over is the money you have to work with.
Don't be seduced by advertisements on the latest 'thing' you must have. Think concrete and towards the future.